What's Friendship?

A friend till the end. It is a dream concept for me. In fact, for all of you. Fortunately I'm blessed with too many. Well, some of you might be on the way achieving it while some others might be sitting all alone without any companions. In any of these case, friendship is an absolute blessing ever created. It has been proven that friendship could solve any problems in this world. Just because it contains everything- Love, tears, joy, sorrow, help, power and many more. It is a mixture of several unseen and abstract elements we cannot even count. You might learn the names of those elements up to an 80 % if you have a single true friend at least. In fact, one true friend is more powerful than a hundred name-sake ones.

                                             Now don't worry if you are alone. Go out and search for people, new bonds, new places and you'll find yourself in the middle of some awesome fellow beings. Select and filter best friends who are ready for something MORE than a selfie.

                                     In friendship, there is both helpfulness and helplessness. Helpfulness is fine. But you might be thinking how helplessness exists among friendship. When a true friend is helpless, he or she may not have any solutions for that problem. But the friend tries to emotionally support his mate even in the helpless situation. And THAT is how helplessness exists inside friendship. There's nothing to worry about it because, if you have a friend who up lifts your emotional health, he is a wonder.

                                  Now, there are some BFFs who try to console the others by an 'hey, it's okay' or 'it will be alright soon' or 'don't worry'. Too hard to say this, but these are the words coming from a friend who has no time for you. I just mean that, if he is your definite friend, he'll not have sympathy but empathy. 

                                 Friends must not be partial to each other. If you have 3 best friends for example, do not consider 1 as your soul friend and the others as best friends. It hurts a lot for the other 2 who watches this. The 3 must be your soul mates if they are your best friends. BECAUSE, the word 'best friend' comes when he becomes a part of your soul. So, caress EVERY friends equally or else you might lose the Sun even while counting the planets! 

                           Just think about having best friends and taking them forever without any ego, UNUSUAL possessiveness or cheats. Then you are in a heaven in earth. Friendship must not be confined to movies and books. Find your friend, grow him with you, care him, protect him, love him and never let him go. Let the world be filled with friendship to cross the Pacific towards the Atlantic.